When you begin to establish a routine prayer life, the words are important. To start we recite prayers from a prayer book and say them verbally. " But this is only the beginning of prayer," says St. Theophan. He sues the analogy of learning a language where we first learn the words and forms of the language from books but we don't stop at this point. We move on to converse freely in the language. the same is true in prayer.
We become accustomed to reading our prayers from books - using the prayer passed down to us by Our Lord, and by the Holy Fathers who had achieved the art of prayer. But we must not stop at this. It is necessary to extend ourselves further. Once we have become accustomed to turn our ears and hearts to God using this help given by others, we should then also attempt to bring something of our won to Him, so to speak; to pass on into our own prayerful conversation with God; to raise ourselves toward Him; to open ourselves to Him; to confess to Him the contents and needs of our souls.
He says prayer "should be an unceasing offering of oneself to Him."
To achieve this, it is necessary to begin - as often as possible during the day - by calling out to God from the heart in short words, according to one's needs and in ways appropriate to the events around you.
St. Theophan the Recluse
