Our
minds are like wild beasts. We must learn to control their tendency to
wander. In prayer absolute attention on the prayer and God is essential.
You may notice how even during your normal activities during the day
you are easily distracted. You probably find this even more noticeable
when you are trying to pray. Harnessing the mind for effective prayer
requires hard work.
Attention Requires Hard Work
Saint Theophan tell us,
"Lasting
pacification of the thoughts is a gift from God, but this gift is not
given without intensifying one's personal labors."
Just
because we have made time for our morning and evening prayer and are
praying, God will not quiet our minds for us. We must act to bring our
mind to attention and then He will assist us.
Saint Macarius the Great says,
"Let
him push himself to prayer even when he does not possess the prayer of
the Spirit. And so. God, seeing him striving so and pushing himself by
determination, even if the heart is unwilling, gives him the authentic
prayer of the Spirit gives him true charity, true meekness, "the bowels
of mercies" (Col 3:12), true kindness, and, simply put, fills him with
the fruits of the Spirit." ...read Homily 19.3
It
is through our striving and forcing ourselves that God will see that we
are giving our best effort to restrain ourselves and to do good. Seeing
this He will grant us true prayer and our striving will become
effortless. Therefore, if we allow our mind to wander and taste of its
own delights and we do not make any effort to contain it, God will see
that we are not prepared for His full grace. How can He have confidence
that we will be capable to do good with it if it were given?